He don't Love you

From Myspace: March 27, 2008

So I have been thinking alot lately, like usual. I have a lot of males as friends, alot....not the privileged type, like they have access on lonely nights, but that they spill out emotions when they r drunk, or need a shoulder. I have always been in that role, but never really paid attention, until now.....I am startign to put the pieces together, we only take as much as we can take, and they will give as much as we allow them to give. They love to fit in where they can... I must admit, some of my guys r down right hoes, and rude, and mean, and irresponsible, and inconsiderate and immature. They tell me how they would never provide for the girl they are seeing now, how sleeping around is what they want to do, and no one will get in the way of playtime. I understand it is a phase and they will grow out of it, but we as women need to stop letting them. As soon as he says he doesn’t want a relationship, let it go. Walk away...if a relationship is what you want. Cuz you will spend more time in trying to get a relationship, that actually being in one. Or, be completely honest with yourself, and realize, that he is a good fuck, and he can satisfy what u need for 5, 10, 15..and maybe if your lucky 20 minutes....No need to explain the reasons, or make up a story, no need for excuses....Admit what it is, it is ok, hes good in bed, maybe not for anythign else, but hes good in bed.......save yourself hurt, and pain, and drama. As soon as you are ready to let go, you will. A man that is in love however, acts differentlly, because a man that wants you, wants to keep you. Not just in line with the others but at the top, above the rest. There is no limit to what a man will do for the woman he loves. Look at my lighter ancesters..the Latinos’....they adore their women. Because he wants to keep her happy, her happiness is his happiness. A woman who loves her man, knows that he is doing what he can to provide for her. She doesnt have to nag, she doesn’t have to stand over him. She allows him to b a man, and gives him room to do it.... k....more to come when I wake up...